 Re: 小弟也有話說 ( No.1 ) |
日期：2005/04/20 09:27
留言者：V
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『 不問別人容不下一粒沙子.... 只問自己容得下一粒石子嗎?! 』
胸襟 諒度 從來最可貴.
JOEJOE兄的一番說話...... 小妹感入肺腑, 良久無言. 可惜說話來晚了!
遲來兩日, 人面已非, 只剩下 一分話柄.... 串串唏噓..... 斯人獨憔悴.......!
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| Re: 小弟也有話說 ( No.2 ) |
日期：2005/04/20 13:29
留言者：louis
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Hi Soso and JoeJoe
re: Etiquette in public communication
The bottom line is when the open discussion is getting too emotional and personal, the audiences have the right to expect these commenters to deal with their personal concerns privately, for instance, via their own personal means of communication.
As a matter of fact, these "self claimed elites" got out of control in their recent conversations that are obviously upsetting the other web pals. Up to this moment, unfortunately they still haven't got the message and continue to post "personal" & "emotional" messages in Alap's World, that indicates they only care about themselves but not about other people's feelings.
I support Alap and his team of management to exercise their right to delete those repugnant and inappropriate messages to maintain a conducive peaceful environment for CO lovers.
louis
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| Re: 小弟也有話說 ( No.3 ) |
日期：2005/04/26 21:59
留言者：v
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其實 一切只緣於 各人心目中的那條底線 的差距而已.
.......又或者是五十步和一百步的分別吧!
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| Re: 小弟也有話說 ( No.4 ) |
日期：2005/04/20 18:08
留言者：sam
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Seriously, to me the whole matter always seems like a little storm in a universe-size cyber teacup. Behind all the conversational exchanges, even at the worst on paper I could see no malice.
What I see is a sitcom episode when the grumpy oldies are fighting amongst them, false teeth are flying everywhere, stained nappies coming off and around them the children are laughing their heads off. Next episode…all live happily together.
I thank those dear friends who rang or emailed me. I have played a part in this mess. One of those false teeth is mine……….I realize that biting another person without any teeth resulting in not hurting the other person but giving that person a heart-felt smoooooch.!! I sincerely apologize to anyone who had this experience from me. (Or may be you instead wish the false teeth were in)
Blessed are the peacemakers.
I encourage all of ah-lap's fans to continue to drop in here and contribute. Ah-lap is busy improving this web site as one can see in 留言板. This is going to be a stronger 天地 simply because we have a common theme here. We love this opera stuff and we come here to share our experiences, music and living. You read 談天說地 and you can feel the family bond. Could we not see our togetherness when some time ago someone tried to sell things here? We all got up and destroy this invader with a swift swipe of the staff.
The past is history. Tomorrow is a new day, new天地.
A new song is coming up…………… 查篤撐 … 撐….. 撐…. .撐
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| Re: 小弟也有話說 ( No.5 ) |
日期：2005/04/21 01:39
留言者：JOEJOE
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感謝諸位對拙文的迴響。儘管有正面也有反面的，均所樂見。倘若小弟只能聽取相同的聲音，豈只有違『討論』的本義，抑且無資格月旦於思菩小姐妝前。
本文不擬向持異見者作任何反駁，只說心裡話。
(1) 討論過程中指名道姓有何不妥？已存在的事實幹嗎偏要迴避？中國非議日本的時候，如果說「亞洲某島國太不像話了!」 那不是很可笑嗎? 君子坦蕩蕩，何用自欺欺人!
(2) 『文鬥』演成『曲鬥』的話，誰敢保證Raymond, 大夫，康少等不會惺惺相惜，日後相交莫逆。
(3) 康少行文:『向大夫道歉』，一位朋友許為『有承擔』。小弟斗膽另作詮釋：三字改為二字：『瀟洒』! 《此地網友高質素》，誠不我欺也!
(4) Louis 先生文中的 "self claimed elites"，小弟不以為然，儘管各持己見，但沒人曾自詡為精英份子。Louis先生請容許小弟說句笑話，小弟深信網友中有不少是"Master"，但他們都不會把degree的Master引申為『大師』。
(5) V小姐文采斐然，親和而世故，以前是失之交臂了。  |
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| Re: 小弟也有話說 ( No.6 ) |
日期：2005/04/22 01:28
留言者：v
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JOEJOE兄,
過譽了, 謝謝!
很高興能夠欣賞你的文章, 喜歡你那持平淡然的風格, 不慍不燥的.
小妹性格浮淺, 才情疏漏, 正好從兄之文章中潛學默修, 以補己之不足處.
望兄有暇多搖筆行文, 小妹於此靜候. |
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| Re: 小弟也有話說 ( No.7 ) |
日期：2005/04/21 22:05
留言者：奀嘟嘟
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sam sir, 借尼使使! 
Wish i had studied my Chinese subjects well when I was young........  |
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| Re: 小弟也有話說 ( No.8 ) |
日期：2005/04/22 09:49
留言者：sam
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why do you think i play instruments and not singing??? I cannot even say many of those opera words let alone making up poems and beautiful words.
these people make me so jealous    , like you v |
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小弟也有話說